Many times the fatigue and the chronic lack of time, hurt our intimacy.
The need to handle career and child raising kills our sexual desire (especially of women).
Remember we studies in the past on how to attract women. May men try to meet women online
This is wrong.
so what we can do about that?
First simply do sex! Many couples simply stop having sex. Not having sex becomes a habit and habits are hard to change . As we refrain from having sex the need for sex is disappearing too...
This is wrong.
so what we can do about that?
First simply do sex! Many couples simply stop having sex. Not having sex becomes a habit and habits are hard to change . As we refrain from having sex the need for sex is disappearing too...
So first of all you must return to sexual activity!
Only with food comes the appetite. Do not talk about what to do, just do it!Have sex just because you need? Even if you do not want? Yes! If it becomes persistent it becomes a habit, and we miss it when it doesn't occur.You can and should gradually start having sex. You can start entering the bed together and just hug each other, and the second time carress. So every time add something new. When the delicate touch is done with no pressure, is delightful and can naturally evolve to sexual desire. Do not worry, instinct implanted in us and he will wake up if you do it the right way. The important thing is persistence and permanence.
My suggestion: Twice a week, at least. Possible and even desirable to determine in advance the schedule.Sex of Saturday - Sunday? Most of us are very busy during the week and can have only the weekend. Wonderful. This weekend an excellent time for sex. It is very important to do so when and where appropriate (both of course). If you are not working Friday, and children in kindergarten or at school you have a great opportunity for sex. And do not say I have no time, wonderful sex can take half an hour maximum. All I ask is that you will schedule an hour a week for sex. Excessive? I dont think so.
Only with food comes the appetite. Do not talk about what to do, just do it!Have sex just because you need? Even if you do not want? Yes! If it becomes persistent it becomes a habit, and we miss it when it doesn't occur.You can and should gradually start having sex. You can start entering the bed together and just hug each other, and the second time carress. So every time add something new. When the delicate touch is done with no pressure, is delightful and can naturally evolve to sexual desire. Do not worry, instinct implanted in us and he will wake up if you do it the right way. The important thing is persistence and permanence.
My suggestion: Twice a week, at least. Possible and even desirable to determine in advance the schedule.Sex of Saturday - Sunday? Most of us are very busy during the week and can have only the weekend. Wonderful. This weekend an excellent time for sex. It is very important to do so when and where appropriate (both of course). If you are not working Friday, and children in kindergarten or at school you have a great opportunity for sex. And do not say I have no time, wonderful sex can take half an hour maximum. All I ask is that you will schedule an hour a week for sex. Excessive? I dont think so.
So where's the spontaneity? The myth that sex is good sex spontaneous and planned sex is not good is wrong. We invest a lot of thought and planning in organizing a wedding, and the result is that we have a beautiful wedding and everyone benefits. This is true of just about any situation in life. What is done in planning and thinking is more likely to be more successful - same goes for sex.If you do not coordinate and plan the result may be worse. If you plan to have sex just as her favorite TV shows she may not agree.
But the desire for sex can not be ordered at the click of a button. Yes,
sex is controlled by the autonomic nervous system, and have him
voluntary control. But yes you can learn to tune into the top sex. Tune
in to sex is mostly clear my head from all the worries and pressures and
all that concerns us so we would be free to connect to the center of
pleasure and our sex. This center exists
in all of us but sometimes the road is blocked. can learn to tune in to
sex, to give way to the center of sex and our enjoyment. If you feel it
more difficult to connect to make your sex, I recommend to go for
treatment sexologist short to give you the tools how to clear our minds
to sex (the sex begins head). women can learn to enjoy and want sex!Other
factors that prevent the desire for sex and they require professional
treatment are anxiety states, depression and the most common cause - anger on your partner. anger Neutralizes sexual desire especially in women. The male hormone testosterone allows men to want sex even when they are angry. Women,
unfortunately or not, received reduced amount of this hormone
(which is good, otherwise they would also look like men).If
you are in an ongoing feud with his / your partner will be helped in
marital therapy should professional help neutralize it and give you
tools to build a good relationship (you can combine the treatment of
marital and sex). Good
sex requires a good relationship, this check, do not delude yourself
that you can yell at the woman in the morning and get sex from her good
night.So in conclusion: you can revive their sex marriage through:A. Building a good sexual habits (action and planning instead of avoidance)Two. Learning how to adjust the head position to connect the center of fun and sexThree. Good marital relationship building.
